january25

one thing I find really annoying is

when I say what's on my mind,

for example, something that is troubling me,

and people start giving me suggestions or advises of what I should do

some of them say things out of care

some of them say things just to show how "wise" they are

whatever their reason is, whether they have good or bad intension, is irrelevant to me

if you don't know the whole story, don't make judgements so fast

don't tell me what I should or shouldn't do when you don't know the situation

because whatever advises you give will be out of context

不懂事情的全部而說出來的話只是風涼話而已

well, actually

I just don't like advises in general unless I specifically ASKED you

if I'm not seeking for advises, don't give any to me because I'd feel insulted

are you so much wiser than me that I wouldn't have thought of whatever advises you give?